I purchased the Elator for my husband and thank you for giving us back our ability to connect in this particularly intimate way. While we have been able to retain a rich sexual relationship, diabetes has taken away my spouse’s erectile function, which in turn made intercourse at first difficult and then a nonstarter. We missed being able to share in each other and I missed the closeness of intercourse. The meds didn’t work and I didn’t necessarily want him to undergo surgical intervention. This seems to solve the problem. Or at least it gives me back something I was missing from my intimate relationship with my spouse. I’d say it’s a win-win for us both.